LIFE COACHING FOR MEN
Marriage, love, friendships, family. How do we as men become and stay successful in our relationships?
Are you perfect? Does that even exist? How do we become better? How do we learn to love ourselves?
Career? Retirement? Something large on the horizon? What are the best ways of getting where we want to be from where we currently find ourselves?
The one constant in every relationship, be it marriage, friendship, or family, is that it’s currently in one well-defined place. You can describe it. All of the positives and negatives. All of the history. You know exactly where it currently is.
And with virtually all relationships, you can also vividly describe what you want it to look like. Where you want it to be. Or not, perhaps. But there is a goal of sorts in your head. Perhaps several goals. Places that may seem far off and unobtainable.
This is what Life Coaching does. To help you find the options to get you from where you are, to where you want to be. Not with magic. Not even with advice. Because your options are inside you already, just waiting for you to see them.
It’s human nature to get tunnel vision at times. Our perceptions of reality become so hyper-focused that we lose sight of the larger pictures. Of real reality. Life Coaches are facilitators. Third parties. We’re not clouded, fixated, or limited. We ask the right questions to open your vision. We help you to define options and possibilities, and to examine them. Will they get you to where you want to be? Are they worth trying?
And as those options are attempted, Life Coaches also provide feedback and help you adapt your path to changing currents.
For relationship building or change, I can offer a non-judging ear. To help you see where you currently are with your spouse, partner, friend, or family member. To help you understand the different types of coping – emotional and physical – that will be required as determine what you want that relationship to be. To understand the underlying issues and problems. And to determine what steps must be taken to help you find a resolution.
Perhaps you are dealing with a failing marriage. Or even a satisfying one that needs a slight change of direction. Maybe it’s reconciling with someone in your family. All relationships come with difficulty, because it’s not just you in the picture. There’s always at least one other. And helping you to see the dynamics of those connections is paramount to moving the relationship in the right direction.
Again, your goals are your own. They are unique. Your options to travel from “Point Here” to “Point There” are already somewhere inside you, waiting to be released and observed. I will not tell you what to do. I won’t even offer up advice on what I would do. Life Coaching doesn’t remove responsibility for choices, but it does help making finding the right choices easier.
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